Some of the deepest and most inspirational lessons that we have learned were a result of observation, rather than lectures. It’s simple psychological math that actions always speak louder than words.
Weaving lessons into everyday life, especially fun activities like a game that your child chose to play with you, is a very effective means of education. Here are some ideas to turn an ordinary game into a springboard to impart timeless values for your children.
Integrity: The urge to win a game can become so powerful that we are moved to cheating. You can discuss the benefits of honesty and the detriments of cheating, while playing a board game with your kids.
Here are some winning points:
Winning: It is human nature to feel good when you win, but how did you make your opponent feel? Did you gloat in arrogance or handle the winning with modesty?
Taking advantage of the weak: While playing a game with your child, there are abundant opportunities to take advantage of other players who are younger, less experienced, or not as attentive to the rules. This is a good time to talk about fairness versus aggression.
Be happy with what you have: There is a fine line between striving to become better and being content with who you are and what you have now. Share insights with your children that oftentimes in retrospect the bad things were blessings in disguise.
The glass is half full: Whether you won or lost, you as the parent can use the game as an opportunity to complement your child on a smart move, or getting along with another player amicably. No matter how well or poorly the game was played; you can always find a way to praise an aspect of how your child played.
Here’s to your success!
